Realistic and Optimism – Not be confused with pretending/ignoring just to be happy.

Seeking a realistic perspective is more useful than pretending everything is okay. – In other words, possibly, your current optimism has you believing that the silver lining is the most significant part of the dark cloud, meaning, you might ignore a problem instead of dealing with it in the moment like you possibly should. Be always optimistic, but at the same time, realistic.